For many couples, Christmas really is the season of joy. In fact, more than a quarter of all engagements take place during the Christmas holiday season. Valentine’s Day comes in a distant second, at 10%. There’s nothing quite like being surrounded by loved ones during the warmth and cheer of the season to encourage couples to make it official. It’s also excellent timing for women looking to become June brides. Is Christmas the ideal time for your proposal?
The Dos and Don’ts of a December Engagement
If you’re considering a holiday engagement, here are some tips and suggestions we’ve gathered to make it a moment both of you will cherish the rest of your lives.
DO
- Surprise your fiancée, even if you’ve already discussed your engagement. Let it be an occasion that catches her off-guard and makes her feel cherished.
- Ask your fiancée if she wants to pick out her own diamond and setting.
- Pick a special spot to propose. A Christmas tree farm, a scenic location brilliantly lit with twinkling lights, the place of your first date or kiss.
- Have someone waiting in the wings to capture the proposal in pictures or on video.
- Share the news! Meet up with friends and family for dinner, post on social media or make phone calls, but let those closest to you in on the happy time.
DON’T
- Make it a family affair or a public spectacle unless you know for certain this is something your fiancé would enjoy. Romance is always a safe choice.
- Forget to keep the holiday and the engagement separate. The day of the year alone does not make it a special proposal.
- Hide the ring somewhere she will struggle to find. There are fun ways to hang a ring on the tree, but do it in plain sight and be ready to go down on one knee!
- Make things complicated. Yes, creativity is fun, but not if the proposal is overshadowed by it.
- Be surprised if people are thrilled for you, but then get back to their own celebrating. Everyone wants to enjoy the holidays!
The Perfect Diamond
Of course, choosing your life partner is one of the most important decisions you’ll make. Choosing the right diamond for her engagement ring is also significant. It can be a fun and enjoyable experience if you avoid making some common mistakes and take the time to get educated about the process. Set up an appointment today at The Diamond Reserve to learn more about how to choose the perfect holiday engagement ring!