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Contents

• Do I Need a
  Wedding Ring?
• When should I
  start thinking about buying the wedding rings?
• What’s your
  budget?
• Consider Your
  Lifestyle
• What about
  the metal?
• Consider the
  Style
  • 1- Channel Set/Eternity Ring
  • 2- Pave Wedding Band
  • 3- Prong Set Wedding Band
  • 4- Comfort Fit Band
  • 5- Half Round Wedding Band
  • 6- Pipe Wedding Band
  • 7- Wide Wedding Bands
  • 8- Matching Bridal Sets
  • 9- One Ring for Engagement and Wedding
• Traditional
  vs. Trendy
• Get the Ring
  Size Right
• How to Shop
  for a Wedding Ring

In all the excitement and preparations for the
big day, it’s easy to postpone picking arguably the most important detail of
the entire wedding – your wedding rings.

After all, it’s the wedding ring that
symbolizes your new status as husband or wife and it’s the one thing from the
wedding you’ll be wearing for the rest of your life.

Taken this way, your wedding ring isn’t one to
be picked lightly. Here’s a look at how to choose your wedding ring.

Do I Need a
Wedding Ring?

This is the million-dollar question and the
truth is – there’s no right or wrong answer to this. Some people just don’t
like wearing wedding rings and others can’t imagine being married without one.

Here’s what some of our readers have said when
we asked them this question:

Anna: I think a wedding ring is important because it symbolizes your wedding. I mean, you don’t have to wear it every day but at least when you go out, so people know you’re married. It’s a nice touch and it’s a gesture that says, I like being married to you.

Amir: I don’t think so. A relationship is between the couple and it doesn’t matter what others think. They don’t have to wear it just to make a statement to others. Basically, what I’m saying is that marriage is a state of mind. A ring isn’t a must.

Nadia: What I think is that wedding rings are not a must. It is a symbol of lifelong fidelity and love but after all it is just a symbol and not a necessity.

As you can see, there are two sides to this. If
you’re in the ‘Wedding Rings Camp’ then keep reading as we outline how to pick
your wedding ring.

When should I
start thinking about buying the wedding rings?

Don’t leave it too late, because buying your rings last minute could
result in one of the following scenarios:

1. Your ring won’t arrive on time because you
   underestimated the production time
2. The rings don’t fit, and you don’t have time to get
   them resized
3. You’re in a panic because you just realized you need
   the rings asap and have to buy whatever you can lay your hands on
4. You’re forced to shop in store as you don’t have time
   to shop online and wait for your rings, so you pay premium prices

To avoid these situations, start searching for your ring about 6 months
before your wedding date. This gives you plenty time to leisurely make your
choice. Production times vary for rings and can take between 3-4 weeks for
standard designs, up to 6 weeks for custom designs and about 2 months during
holiday periods.

Also, by giving yourself enough time, you can search online for your
wedding rings. This gives you endless choices and competitive prices to choose
from.

You can also easily browse from the comfort of your home and ask all
your questions from helpful online sales reps while wearing your pyjamas and
drinking a cup of hot chocolate.

What’s your
budget?

Wedding rings range from a few dollars to several thousands of dollars,
so picking a budget will help you decide where you fall on this spectrum.

The general guideline is to spend around 3-5% of your overall wedding
budget on your wedding rings. So as a rough estimate, if your wedding is going
to cost you 20k, expect to pay around $1000.

Remember that this is just a rough outline; in reality, you may pay much
less or more depending on the type of ring style and quality you choose.

Consider Your
Lifestyle

Most people buy a wedding ring based simply on how it looks. A ring
might be pretty but it might not be right for the lifestyle you live.

Because your ring is something you’ll likely wear daily, choose a ring
that integrates into your lifestyle and is practical as well. You want the ring
to be comfortable and easy to wear as well as durable with minimal maintenance.

If you’re in a job where you use your hands a lot (nurses, typists,
bartenders etc…) or work outside a fair bit (gardeners, sports coaches etc…) choose
a ring with a hardy ring design that’ll take life’s knocks and bumps unfazed.

If you’re not allowed to wear rings at work due to safety concerns, you
can always wear your ring on a chain around your neck.

The point is to find a ring that works with your lifestyle not against
it.

What about
the metal?

There are so many wedding ring metals on the market that it
can be mind-boggling to choose the right one for you.

The classic metal choices are gold and
platinum. Today there’s also variety of industrial or alternative metals like
tungsten, titanium, carbon fiber and cobalt that make excellent choices. You
can also find unique, out of the ordinary metals like meteorite or mokume gane
that add an extra something to your ring.

• One of the most important
  points to note is the durability of the metal. Some metals are softer and more
  prone to damage (like fine silver or 22-24K gold) whereas others are near
  indestructible (like tungsten and titanium).
• Another point to factor in
  is the value. Less expensive industrial metals (like stainless steel or tungsten)
  will be easy on your wallet while prestigious metals like platinum can break
  the bank.
• And finally, you’ll also
  want to consider the metal color. The main colors for wedding rings are yellow
  gold, silver-colored metals and rose gold. Each offers something different and
  suit different skin tones and ring styles.

If you’re trying to think of which metal is the best, it really is a subjective question. Based on our research, here are the best metals for:

1. Durability
   – Tungsten (ranks Mohs 9)
2. Prestige
   – Platinum (the most expensive metal)
3. Price
   –Stainless steel (the most affordable)
4. Tradition
   – Gold (the oldest metal used in jewelry)
5. Uniqueness –
   Meteorite (it’s out of this world)
6. Appearance –
   Mokume Gane (but this is subjective)

Consider the
Style

Unlike engagement rings, there are fewer
design options when it comes to wedding ring, but it can still be a lot to go
through. Think about the maintenance the ring design requires and whether
you’re willing to give the ring what it needs to keep it shiny.

For example, designs with stones, channels and
grooves will always need more maintenance than a simple, polished ba

Here’s a quick list of the most popular types
of wedding ring styles:

1- Channel Set/Eternity Ring

A half-channel set men’s wedding ring.

Find it here

An eternity ring is also known as a channel set ring design, because it
consists of a row of tiny diamond melees set all around the circumference of
the ring. While typically a design for female wedding bands, today they’re a
popular style for male wedding rings too, ideal for a man who likes a little
sparkle on his finger.

Eternity rings also come in half-eternity style, where the diamonds only
go halfway around. This is typically a more cost-effective option while still
giving you the look of a full eternity.

Although diamonds are the most popular stone for this style, there’s no
limit to the type of gemstone you can use. You could think outside the box and
opt for a unique gemstone, like a turquoise eternity ring.

2- Pave Wedding Band

See similar rings here

Like the channel setting, the pave also
features diamonds but in a slightly different way. The diamonds on a pave
setting are tiny and set close together to resemble a ‘pavement’. There’s less
metal and more diamond showing, resulting in a highly brilliant and sparkling
ring.

Pave bands can be harder to maintain and
there’s the risk of the losing the tiny melees. It’s not ideal if you use your
hands a lot but it’s extremely stylish and beautiful. Pave wedding bands are
typically designed for women.

3- Prong Set Wedding Band

Why single when you can make it double?

See this prong set wedding ring here

Like the channel and pave settings, the prong
setting also features little diamonds around the ring but again there’s a
variation. Here, the diamonds aren’t set in a channel and don’t pave the metal.
Instead, they’re held in place by prongs.

The diamonds can either completely or half
encircle the ring’s circumference, or it can just be a single diamond in the
front. There are many ways to design a prong set wedding ring.

4- Comfort Fit Band

Comfort fit wedding band by Blue Nile.

Find this ring here

These are bands that are designed to fit comfortably on your finger.
They’re slightly rounded or domed on the inside, instead of flat, which reduces
the chance of the ring spinning on your finger annoyingly.

5- Half Round Wedding Band

No, this doesn’t mean a crescent shaped ring. It just refers to the
external shape of the ring which is rounded while the internal part is either
flat or comfort fit. The half round is a classic style and has been around for
centuries.

6- Pipe Wedding Band

What do you get when a cut a piece out of a pipe? A round shape with
straight edges that don’t taper or curve. When you wear a pipe wedding band,
you’ll feel the entire interior of the ring touching your finger, because
that’s how it’s designed.

The benefit of the pipe wedding band is that it’s less likely to spin on
your finger, as there’s more friction thanks to more skin contact. This is a
popular style among men’s rings.

7- Wide Wedding Bands

Wide wedding band.

See it here

Not a very common design, wide wedding bands are just that – wide bands.
Typically a wide wedding band would be over 7mm in width and would sit very
stiffly on your finger. It can take some getting used to, but one main benefit
of these rings is that they don’t spin on your finger. Matching a wide wedding
band to your engagement ring can get tricky though, so consider this before you
buy.

8- Matching Bridal Sets

Some people prefer to get a bridal set,
consisting of matching engagement and wedding rings, or a trio set which also
includes a matching groom’s ring. The benefit of buying a bridal or trio set is
that it takes the guesswork out of coordinating the look of three separate
rings. This is ideal if you’re into a well-matched look.

But for some people, this might come across as
boring or too matchy-matchy. Not buying a ring set allows you to get creative
with your rings and add your own touch to each piece. For example, you might
want to incorporate different elements to each ring and a set won’t allow you a
lot of creative freedom.

9- One Ring for Engagement and Wedding

A new trend that’s becoming quite popular is
that of choosing to wear one ring to mark both your engagement and your wedding.
Not only is this a cost-effective option but it’s also ideal if you don’t like
the idea of wearing two rings.

The all-in-one bridal ring trend is for a
trendsetter, someone who doesn’t mind doing things differently. 

Traditional
vs. Trendy

Be open to new ideas and designs when you’re
going ring shopping, because you just might find something unique that you fall
in love with. However, on the flip side, consider how you might feel about the
ring decades down the track.

You don’t want to buy something too trendy
that falls out of style in a couple of years. Unlike costume jewelry, a wedding
ring is meant for life, so the ring design should be able timeless.

Having said that, note that you can always
change your ring down the track, like having it plated or adding gemstones.

Get the Ring
Size Right

Blue Nile’s free plastic ring sizing tool.

See it here

This can be easier said that done considering
that your fingers tend to expand and shrink based on external conditions like
temperature and internal conditions like your emotions.

Size your finger at a time when you’re rested,
calm and have a normal body temperature. This way, you know that your fingers
are at their most normal size.

It’s also always better to opt for size up
than down, if you aren’t sure because it’s easier to decrease a ring’s size
rather than increase its size.

How to Shop
for a Wedding Ring

Unlike the engagement ring, which is usually a
surprise on the part of the groom, shopping for wedding rings is more a mutual
effort. It’s probably the most important piece of jewelry that you’ll both buy
together.

You can either browse in store or online, but
it goes without saying that online stores have better pricing and bigger
ranges. Also, you can compare across vendors and pick out a ring that suits you
without needing to leave your couch.

Some couples are wary of purchasing online,
which is why it’s important to buy from a highly reputable vendor with years of
experience and a great track record like James Allen or Blue Nile.

Buying in store also has its advantages. For
one thing, you can develop a relationship with the jeweler and go back if
there’s an issue with your rings.

You can also try it on before you buy and know
exactly how the ring will look in person. If you’re looking to customize your
rings, then a physical store might offer you more than an online store.

Both shopping online and instore have their
benefits so weight the pros and cons and go with what feels right.

You can also combine the two methods by
browsing in store and then finding a similar ring online at a lower price
online.

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